cycles, sometimes I want to do it more than others, and sometimes I have no interest in

doing it at all. But that begs the question what is the fascination with cross-dressing?

Is it do with the fact that we are trying to find something in ourselves that we are not

finding in our partner. Or perhaps something that is just missing from our lives? Take

this for instance, some men have a fascination with seeing a woman with a nice figure

dressed a short skirt and high heels, and best of all the fishnet stockings. Your partner

on the other hand, doesn't portray this image, or fulfill this fantasy, you do not want to

be unfaithful, perhaps it's not your nature. Cross dressing for some people then, it would

seem, is just a way of living this fantasy, without necessarily having to be unfaithful.

Or perhaps it is just a safer environment for being able to fulfil one's Own fantasy of

portraying that image of which we desire within our partners or indeed, more often within

ourselves. That last comment needs expanding on, To fulfil one's Own fantasy, do some men

get turned on by the fact that they are able to betray a feminine image? Some will achieve

this very successfully, whilst others will achieve it to a certain extent. Perhaps for

some it's just a form of sexual relief, for others they seem to just one what to see what

it would be like to leave as a woman for a period the time, knowing that they can return

to their normal masculine self- just by taking off the make-up, the wig, the female

clothes, etc. From a more psychological point of

view, When it comes to cross dressing the psychology behind the reasons why we do it is

very complicated, For the individual concerned is really the only person that can work out

why we do it, with or without counseling from a 3rd party. Perhaps we where just born

this way! There is after all, a school of thought that defines the biological reason's for

cross dressing through to gender orientation by explaining the reasons away in scientific

terms. This theory defines that our gender is determined biologically prior to birth.Let’s take a quick biology lesson. Life for all of us begins in

the womb, prior to conception we exist as a single egg comprising amongst other things, an

X chromosome. The male sperm that impregnates the egg can consist of either an X or Y

chromosome, this determines the sex, XX = female, and XY = male. Should and X Y chromosome

combination result, the child will be born as a Male. During the early stages of pregnancy

the fetus will normally receive a large dose of male hormones from the pregnant mother.

This putt’s into place all of the biological mechanisms that will cause the unborn

child to develop as a male. However, studies have shown that mothers tend to have male